HUMILIATION
SERVING A FEMDOM WIFE
Practical ideas to serve your dominant Wife
- What does she enjoy for breakfast? Surprise her a couple of times a week with a
wonderful wakeup call and a simple breakfast in bed. Maybe it's just a good cup of
coffee and her favorite jam on toast. I bring my wife a cup of coffee while she's in bed
every morning.
- How about right before going to bed you give her a tender back rub and tell her
how much she means to you. Then embrace her and go off to sleep without any other
expectations
- Open the door for her, whether it's the car or home or when you are out. When
you go out to eat, seat her first by pulling out the chair for her. Make sure she is
comfortable first, before you sit down. Ask her for her order then order for her.
- After dinner, clean off the table and do the dishes. Invite her to take a rest. Make
sure you thanked her for the good meal.
- Do you have children? Spend time with them playing and having fun. Play
games, go on walks and bike rides. Spend time talking with them and enjoying that
relationship. Get on the floor and color, wrestle, make tents, etc.
- Make it a rule that you never, under any circumstances, speak unkindly to her,
whether face to face or out in public to others. Learn to control yourself if you have a
temper. Speak kindly to her, with deep respect and admiration.
- Stop the porn and looking at other women!!! If you want to throw cold water on
your relationship, keep those things up. A woman feels violated and humiliated when
she feels that your eyes and heart chase after other women. especially those air-brushed
babes in magazines that truly don't even exist. She can't compete with them, nor
should she feel the need to!
- What is her favorite dessert? If you can't make it, go buy it and bring it home.
Enjoy some quiet time in the evening with the dessert, coffee, and good conversation.
- Find out what are her dreams and desires. What would she like to see fulfilled in
her life. Then, begin to take some steps to make that happen.
- Ask your woman, "What would make you feel truly loved, cherished, and
honored". Tell her that you want to know because you realize that you probably don't
do a real good job in these areas and want to improve.
- Help around the house. Don't make her a slave to the washing machine, vacuum
cleaner, stove, ironing board. Get on your hands and knees and wash the floor, help
out with other household chores.
- Buy some small scented candles and nice bubble bath. Send your woman an e-
mail or call her and let her know that you want her to free up an hour to take a nice
hot bubble bath. Put the candles in the bathroom and light them. Draw the water for
her with bubble bath. Put on romantic music. Put some magazines in there for her to
look at. While she is soaking, find a task that you can do to lighten her load.
- When you are in public, hold her hand, put your arm around her. Show others
that she is your woman and you are her man. You are taken up with her and find her
altogether lovely.
- Let her catch you staring at her, whether at home or in public. Eye her up and
down and let her know how desirable she is to you.
- Does she enjoy plays, operas, chick-flicks, etc.? Invite her to go out for the
evening for a good meal and an event that she would enjoy.
- Quit taking up so much time with your sports, bar hopping, and continuous guy
stuff. You don't have to stop all of it totally. But you are probably spending more time
on yourself than on her.
- Be her best friend. Develop a totally open and honest relationship with her. Don'
t do something in secret that you know would hurt her or that would make her feel less
than honored and loved by you if she were to find out.
- Remember how to ask forgiveness and admit when you have done wrong. Let
her know you are truly sorry for inappropriate actions or words.
- Does she have a particular hobby? Buy a subscription to a magazine that focuses
on that hobby. Watch for seminars and trade shows related to her area of interest and
make time to take her.
- Listen to her when she casually mentions something that she really wants. Write
it down. Try to find a way to get it for her and surprise her for no particular reason.
- Learn to be a giver, not a taker. Find at least 3 things that you can do every day
to show her how special she is to you. Every day find several things to genuinely
compliment her on. Don't be fake, she will see right through that!
- Play a board game, card game or put together a puzzle with her. She will
appreciate the time with you and some great laughter and conversation will probably
pop up.
- Buy her something intimate and special. Highlight her beauty in ways that is very
honoring to her. Make her feel beautiful and adored.
- Help her by offering to do her nails, brushing her hair, setting out some clothing
or lingerie for her. These little items will be very special for her. You will have a good
time doing it!
- Does she like a particular type of candy or chocolate? When you are out, stop in
a store and see if they have what she likes. Put a red ribbon around it with a nice card
or note letting her know that you are crazy about her.
- Offer to run errands for her. Give her some time to herself to relax and maybe do
something that she has been wanting to do.
- Give good-bye and greeting kisses and embraces. You can carry those with you
throughout the day.
- Send romantic e-mails. If you do it from work, be careful that you are not
violating any workplace rules.
- Read to her. I don't know a woman that does not like to hear her man's voice
when he is reading to her. It's another level of communication that she will love.
- Massage her feet. She will really enjoy the intimate attention.
- If you have children, take them out for the day and give her some time to herself.
- Bring home some fresh flowers, perfume, or her favorite bath oils or soaps.
- Buy scented candles or incense to create a wonderful mood.
- Put love notes where she will look; lingerie drawer, on bathroom mirror, on her
dashboard, on her pillow, in her purse, etc. | 
