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Training of slave husband

  

  

  

  

  

TRAINING OF SLAVE HUSBAND

  

  

  

  

Here are a few little humiliations and training tips I've collected over time from various sources.

 

The idea is to keep him on edge, stimulate his overactive imagination, and fill him with anticipation.

 

 

 

 

- Dress to your lover's specifications (not your slave husband's) to please your lover.

Make sure slave husband knows who you are dressing for. Go a little over the top. Wear extra-short skirts, thongs or no panties, see through blouses, heels, hose, body stockings, teddies, baby-dolls, camisoles. (Wear full pajamas or long opaque gowns with slave husband if you let him in your bed).

 

- Alter your body or look at the request of your lover that marks you as his (make sure slave husband knows it's your lover's request).

 

 Cut your hair short (or grow it long), dye it, curl it, braid it, straighten it, get a tattoo (temporary or permanent) that your lover selects, shave your pussy (either bare or trim it in a heart or a V shape for your lover), get a tongue, nipple, or clit piercing.

 

- Wear an ankle bracelet or other jewelry that comes from your lover (make sure that slave husband sees it and knows where it came from).

 

- Wear your lover's college ring, an ankle bracelet or regular bracelet with your lover's initials or first name, or a cameo necklace or pin with your lover's picture in it.

 

 - Use sexy makeup that is different than you would normally wear that appeals to your lover .

 

- Make sure slave husband knows that your lover likes you in the "slut" look

Things like blue eye shadow, orange or hot pink lipstick with dark lip liner, extra rouge, long eyelashes, etc.

 

 - Get a natural tan or a "tan from the bottle" as requested by your lover.

Make sure the tan lines give you that "I wear a thong for my lover" look. Consider a design like a playboy bunny in your bikini line.

 

 - Shop frequently with slave husband and spend, spend, spend, so he can carry, carry, carry!

 

 Make sure slave husband carries all your sacks and packages and walk ahead of him so he is trailing behind like a puppy dog. Always buy something for your lover's benefit, some lacy panties, a baby-doll nightie or Teddy, and make sure slave husband (any anyone else within earshot) knows it is for your lover. Ask slave husband a question he needs to respond to like:

"Hon, don't you think {my lover} will love me in this? If your slave husband is a sissy (or if you want to make him into one?and I recommend it highly) don't forget to buy him something feminine - frilly panties, for example -and while ringing them up saying, "Hon, wouldn't these look cute on you while you are watching me with {my lover}" or, "Hon, are you sure these are going to fit you?"

 

 - Make slave husband into your chauffeur.

 

 If you want your slave husband to drive you and your lover on dates, get slave husband used to you riding in the back seat while he drives you around like your chauffeur. Always wait for him to open the door to let you in and out (Girls, this goes for all other doors too - he should learn to dash ahead of you to open the door). Wear short skirts that ride up and high heels and hose to tease him and give him a nice view for incentive. This is how you will be dressed with your lover anyway so slave husband might as well get used to it.

 

 - Train slave husband as your masseur.

 

 Mold slave husband into your valet and personal assistant. Teach him massage feet (nice to get him kneeling), legs, and whole body, drawing your bath, serving you wine, shaving your legs and pussy, helping you choose your clothes and dressing. (Make sure he always kneels and puts on your shoes for you). He should become expert at applying finger and toenail polish and cinching corsets as well as brushing your hair. Praise him frequently.

He will soon take pride in presenting you to your lover all dolled up. If your lover visits, slave husband should greet him (in full sissy attire if he is one), be a good host and make him comfortable.

 

- Teach slave husband how to make and serve breakfast for you and your lover.

Get him an appropriate feminine apron on one of your shopping trips.

Have him go with you the first time or two to learn where the items are and what to look for in the grocery store. Then, he can go on his own later with a list. Show him how to prepare the eggs, toast or muffins, juice, hash browns, ham or bacon, French toast, cereal, or whatever, just the way you and your lover like them. Show him how to arrange the tray and decorate it with flowers. Also, make sure he is skilled with opening and serving champagne.

 

- Converse publicly (and intimately) with your lover while slave husband listens.

Make sure you carry your cell phone so your lover can call you (or you can call him) while you are out with slave husband. Leave no doubt in slave husband's mind (or anyone within ear shot) that you are talking to your lover and are excited about it. Say things like: "You know you own it, baby," or, "Oooh, sugar, that sounds soooo naughty, I can't wait!"

"Don't worry about him, he's just my sissy wimp," "Oh, honey, you're my real man," "I've never done that, but of course for you, I'll do it baby, you know I'll do whatever you want," "You make me feel like such a virgin,"

"I love it when you talk like that!" Keep your lover on the phone (or pretend to) until you see slave husband squirming, then keep him just a little bit longer and sign off with something like: "bye, bye, lover," or, "see you soon, baby," or, "keep that big thing hard for me, lover," and make an obvious kissing sound into the phone.

 

- Stay out later than expected on girl's night out.

If slave husband expects you at 10 or 11 come back at midnight or 1am in the morning. Lose your panties (or if they are soaked, then put them where slave husband can "accidentally" find them) and if he is waiting up for you, give him a teasing glimpse of your bare pussy and breasts. If he's not  waiting up, consider sleeping in your sexy dress so slave husband will be reminded in the morning how you went out the night before. You'll look tousled and disheveled.

 

- ALWAYS give your slave husband direct orders and commands so he can get used to being treated as a sub.

 

 

This is hard to learn, but men and especially slave hubbies respond best to directness. It even turns them on. Never ask, "Do you want to?" or, "Would you like to?" or even, "Why don't we?" Instead, be direct and state clearly what you want or don't want him to do. Say,

"I want you to.(take the trash out now, clean up your room now, get my car washed today, etc.). Ultimately, slave husband will enjoy being treated like a sub and you will enjoy the results.

 

- Switch him over completely to wearing women's panties.

There are many benefits to this. You not only increase his chances of being faithful (he will be embarrassed to show his panties to other women), but he will slide a little further into sub space. Pink is best, but get him a mixture of colors. Stretchy "Body by Victoria" bikini briefs are nice. Also, have some extra frilly, lacy, and feminine kind he can wear when your lover is over. Throw away ALL of his male underwear and let him wear a neutral color panty (like gray or blue) to the doctor's office. Make sure he wears his panties everywhere?to work, to dinner, to the gym, and also takes them on trips.

 

 - Shave his pubic area and make sure he keeps it shaved.

This gives him a little boy look and begins your control of his sexuality.

It also makes his panties feel sexier. Let him know how much you like it and want him to keep it that way. (Consider giving him a hand job or blowjob after shaving as an incentive). Get him a special razor (woman's razor like Silk Effects is good), and special cream (Skintimate gel is nice). Teach him how to apply moisturizer or Aloe Vera to prevent razor rash. Once he is shaving regularly, he will be a perfect candidate for a chastity device later.

 

-ALWAYS compare your slave husband's penis size unfavorably (whether it is or not) to your lover's.

Say things like: "Honey, he is soooo much bigger (or longer, or thicker) than you!" "He goes so much deeper than you," It feels so good when he stretches me out like you can't do," "I feel so split open, so full, so stretched to the max with him," His strokes are so much longer and deeper than yours," "He slides past my cervix and touches me in places that you never will."

 

 - ALWAYS be very vocal and demonstrative when having sex with your lover, NEVER with slave husband.

Be quiet, yawn, check your watch, and act bored when having sex with slave husband. Never thrust against him, or admit to, or show that you are having an orgasm (even if it actually happens). Look like you are thinking about your grocery list. Say things like: "Are you in yet?" "Can you hurry it up?" Be very demonstrative with your slave husband when he licks you, and act more interested in stimulating him by hand, or better yet, watching him masturbate. Tell him how much it turns you on. On the other hand, ALWAYS be extremely vocal, admit to, marvel at, and show multiple orgasms with your lover. Moan, scream, smile, buck, hump, wrap your legs around him tightly, dig your fingernails in his back, French-kiss

him. Make it clear that you are his slut.

 

 - Do things sexually with your lover that you've never done (and say you never will do) with your slave husband.

Make sure you let your slave husband see or hear about sexual things you do with your lover that you haven't done with slave husband. Things like: 69 with him on top, sucking and swallowing, rimming, anal sex, fucking him backwards with you on top (facing slave husband), French kissing (NEVER French kiss slave husband).

And if slave husband asks for any of these things say, "No Hon, I only do that for {my lover}" or, "No Hon, there's no point?you're just not big enough for that position."

 

 

By themselves, these are just little things, but taken together, they can add up to something big. (And we all do like something big, don't we girls?).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SLAVE HUSBAND TRAINING

 

- advice on Strapons and slave training -

 

 

 

I think the first real humiliation for my slave husband was after we began watching the IR movies before having sex. We were just thinking about getting into Interracial swinging, and I asked him to get me for my birthday the BlackBull strapon. When he gave it to me and I just gushed over its size, kissing it and rubbing it on my breasts, I loved the expression on his face. He was turned on but blushing also!

 

 At first it was difficult to get used to the size, but then I needed it and I couldn't really feel his little penis afterwards, and he couldn't make me cum except with his tongue. It's only natural then when you show your slave husband this way you need big black cock to cum to get into IR swinging, and he wanted to see me do it as much as I wanted to do it.

 

 Since then we have tried several models, and the favorite for humiliation is a special one that we found in an adult novelty shop in Las Vegas that he holds one end in his mouth and straps around his head. At that point he is naked and hands cuffed in back, and wearing a buttplug. The only way he can fuck me is by bobbing his head back and forth while I lie on the bed with my knees over the side.

 

 I usually have a glass of wine, make him go real slow, and talk to my boyfriends or other cuckoldress friends about the coming weekend. It's a lot of work for Walter because he has to move his whole torso back and forth and Iv'e trained him with hand signals and little tugs on his leash and collar. What's so nice is he is helpless, can't speak, can't move except to give me pleasure, and when I cum, his reward is for me to take off the big black rubber phallus glistening with my juices and he licks and sucks it clean! The earlier strapons he used on me I began to use on him, because I believe your marriage has a better chance after you go black if you sissify your husband completely and train him to take black cock in every hole! But that's just my opinion!

 

 

 

 

I keep my slave husband pretty much in chastity now, and the only way he is allowed to come is by my using Pancho, the biggest strapon he can take, which is an excellent prostate squeezer, and he will, if he takes it properly, milk out some cum but without a real ejaculation so he'll remain nice and horney and submissive for the next time!"

 

 

 

 

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TRAINING THE SLAVE HUSBAND

 

- shower prison slave training -

 

 

 

I would like to tell you about an idea I came up with to confine my cuckold husband ( when I am having sex with my boyfriend or out with my friends )

 

I have a En-suite bedroom and in the bathroom is a shower cubical, it has a glass sliding door and I had my cuckolded husband drill a hole at the runner so that a padlock can fit, so when the door is closed I put on the padlock and the door will not slide back, my slave can stand inside and we can see him.

 

I have add another idea to this above the cubical I got slave husband to get a clothes dryer the type that stands up with rails and when you put this on it side way on top of the cubical you can pin washing so that the washing hangs inside the shower, the wasing driping on to him make a great punishment and no effort from me needed. ( its like self humilation and punishment )

 

When it's time for punishment and I am going out with my friends I have slave husband collect all the washing ( panties, girdles and bras etc ) or if my boyfriend is coming over I tell him to bring his washing ( socks pants etc, ) either way I have my cuck slave husband wash them but not wring out, so that they drip dry, he then hangs the washing above his head in the shower and I make him strip off and get inside the shower and lock it.

 

It is so funny when my boyfriend and I make love in the bedroom: I know that he can here us and after when we go to the toilet we will humilate him more by making him turn on the cold shower and keep it on while my boyfriend and I use the toilet.

 

I have tried other places to keep my slave confined, but the shower is more practical because if he need to go to the toilet he can in the shower without making a mess and you can inspect him throught the glass, he is not going anywhere.

 

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SLAVE HUSBAND TRAINING

 

- well trained husband -

 

 

 

I am writing at my wife's insistance. She wants me to write anonymously about how she is pussywhipping me, which I must admit I love her doing very much.

 

I am very pussywhipped now. For instance, everyday I write my dirtiest sexual desires for my wife to read in a diary, and present it to her with a freshly made cup of coffee, and with my cock tied up tight with a shoe-lace so that the balls are separated and rediculous looking. I carry toilet paper for her in a plastic bag, (aloe-vera coated) in case she needs to pee in an inopportune place. I make her appointments for pedicures and manicures, and sit with her quietly while she has the work done at the salon. When she has her period, I help her change her tampon while I am kneeling.

 

We have a cb3000 chastity device, but we have only used it once. It made me pee all over myself when i had to go. I liked her laughing at me when it happened. (We need more time to live as kinkily as we would like) I cook for my wife everyday and put her to sleep by keeping my face breathing on her vagina. At all times, at home or in public, she addresses me as 'Loser'. It is her pet name for me.

 

My wife is very pretty, blonde, southern, and only about 100 lbs, and we are both in our early fourties. I try hard to treat her as a Queen, because she really is like one to me. I believe in gynosupremacy, and I love to be owned as I am and ruled as I am.

 

I think there are no limits on how far we would go, at least she hasn't mentioned any.

 

I am supremely happy and I love her so very intensely. It is my need to display my gratitude and bonded feeling to her which drives me.

 

 

 

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