SUBMISSIVE HUSBAND 7
From Denise T:
Elise, I have been practicing the female domination lifestyle for around two years now with my husband, Ray. About six months ago I decided to quit playing around and I got very serious about this lifestyle. I made my husband into my total slave. Things were going great as I was learning more about this lifestyle and I was gaining more and more control over my husband. Then something happened that threatened to end our lifestyle for awhile. My sister had to leave her abusive husband and she had no where to go. We live out in the country and we have a very cute home, but it is small. We couldn't turn our back on my sister so we invited her to live with us. My sister is five years younger and she is thirty-five and we are both forty. My husband got her a job where he works at and my sister was able to settle right in. I really enjoyed having her around, as we had not seen very much of each other over the last few years. The only problem was that having her live with us made it almost impossible for us to practice our female domination lifestyle. She gave us some time alone as she did go out a lot to the mall and with some of her new friends. When she did give us some time, we would play. It wasn't the same though as a lifestyle and my husband was starting to revert back to his dominant male ways. All of the training that I had done was starting to slip away. Well I couldn't stand for that.
Therefore, I had a decision to make. My sister was still a couple of months away from being at a place financially to go out on her own again. That left me with only one alternative. I was going to have to include her in our female domination lifestyle. My sister is no prude and she has been around a little. One day as we were talking, the subject of sex came up. I used this as an opportunity to ask her if she had ever heard about female domination and male submission. Surprisingly she had. She surfs the web a lot and she had seen some F/D and B/D web sites. She also dated a man who wanted her to be dominant with him back in college. She said that she played some D&S games with him and she really enjoyed it, but that relationship didn't last very long for other reasons. My sister's little bit of knowledge was enough for me to open up to her about my relationship with Ray. We got on the computer together and I showed her some of my favorite web sites about D&S and female domination, including your web site. My sister was really fascinated by it and she asked me lots of questions. I gave her some of the books and material I had purchased about the subject and she read them.
I opened up to her about how I needed to dominate Ray openly in the house and if that would bother her. She told me that it didn't and she even offered to move out if that is what I wanted. I told her that I didn't want her to leave yet. I than asked her if she wanted to assist me in dominating and training Ray. She got very excited about my proposition, as she wanted to learn more about the female domination lifestyle. She had been used by men all of her life and she was tired of it. Therefore, she agreed to my request.
It started out fairly harmless. I told my husband that my sister knew about our relationship and lifestyle and that she was OK with it. I then began to dominate him just as I did before my sister moved in. We would play in our bedroom and I didn't worry about keeping my voice down. I used my paddles and whips on him and I didn't worry about the sounds that they made or the sounds that he made. I know my sister was laying up in her room trying to hear as much as possible (she was always a snoop when we were kids) and I'm sure that she was getting turned on by it all.
Outside of the bedroom, I made my husband drop to his knees and to kiss my shoes, boots, and feet whenever he greeted me, whether my sister was around or not. My husband had to wait on me and do most of the household chores. Whenever he wasn't around, my sister would constantly ask me questions. She was totally fascinated by my control over him.
Then I made my mistake. She told me that she was ready to assist me in Ray's domination, if I was still willing. I thought that it might be fun. I started out by humiliating my husband in front of her. I verbally humiliated him, I spanked him, I made him kiss our shoes and feet, and that sort of thing. I also told my husband that my sister was also a superior female and that he had to obey her and do whatever she said. I gave my sister permission to discipline and to punish him if he ever disobeyed her when I wasn't around. My sister really took to it. Again, it was a lot of fun at first. We would really team up on him. We loved to rent movies or watch television and force my husband to wait on us, bring us foods and drinks, massage our feet, etc. Ray was loving this as much as we were.
Sometimes, I would even allow my sister to verbally humiliate him in front of me and administer a spanking or whipping to him for my entertainment. Our play never got too crazy around my sister though, and I kept the heavy-duty stuff and all the sexual stuff reserved for my time alone with him in the bedroom. His training was going great as having two of us dominating him was turning him into a better submissive. He rarely disobeyed us.
Then I started to notice some welts on him during our private playtime. I asked my husband about it and he informed me that my sister had done it to him. I asked him if he had been disobeying her orders and he said that he didn't think so, but my sister would constantly accuse him of not doing a good enough job, so she would severely spank and whip him. I asked him why he didn't tell me that this was going on and he said because I had ordered him to obey her and that I had given her permission to punish him. He assumed that I knew that my sister was doing this and that it had my blessing.
I then asked him what else she was doing to him when I wasn't around. He informed me that she liked to perform cock and ball torture on him. I was floored. I didn't want my sister to look at or touch his genitals. She was out with some friends or I would have called her into our room and confronted her about this.
I continued to ask my husband what else she had done to him. Well it only got worse, much worse. She also was administering to him some golden showers. I really got upset. I didn't want my husbands mouth anywhere near her crotch, I told him. That's when he dropped the big one on me. He confessed to me that my sister also had him orally service her. I couldn't believe my ears. I asked him how often, and he said about once per day. My husband and sister both got home from work an hour and a half before I did, and that is when all of this was taking place. She had been having him orally please her daily for almost two weeks.
As you can imagine, I was livid. I asked him if there had been any fucking going on or if he was receiving any orgasms. He told me that he was not. Finally, a little good news at last. I was so livid at my sister and my husband. I know that I had given her a lot of latitude in dominating my husband, but she went way too far and he should have told me all of this the first time she tortured his genitals, gave him a golden shower, or made him orally please her. I got my whips out and I really punished my husband. It was the most severe beating I had ever given him.
When my sister got home, I confronted her about it. She got emotional and she begged me to forgive her. She said that she enjoyed dominating a man so much, that she got carried away. She was overcome with sexual arousal and she yielded to temptation. She wanted to tell me but she was afraid to. I couldn't stay mad at her so I hugged her and I forgave her. She promised to never do it again and I told her that it would be best if she started to look for her own place. I called my husband into the room and we all sat down and talked about it. After we talked awhile, I got over most of my anger. My sister moved out a couple of weeks later and we are still on good terms. My husband must still obey her if she ever makes any non-sexual requests of him, but my sister must clear everything through me.
When I think about it now, I actually get sexually excited about the thought of my husband being sexually dominated by my sister. Especially, the thought of him orally servicing her. I don't know why this image excites me, but it does. Did I overreact to my husband and sister and did I ruin a good thing? Maybe I should have allowed my sister to continue to stay with us. I think that I might have enjoyed watching my husband orally service my sister on occasion and I really would have enjoyed watching her perform C/B torture on him. What are your thoughts on all of this?
From Mary K:
I was initially very shocked to find your female supremacy web site. You see I discovered the site rather accidentally, it was in the 'history' file on my browser which meant that your site could only have been visited by my nineteen year old son (as only my son and I use the computer). My son has always been 'submissive' to females now that I look back at it but I always dismissed it as being part of his passive nature. Now I see there was a deeper side to it. My son is now engaged to be married to a young woman three years older than him. I knew that the girl he is engaged to was rather bossy so I was afraid that she was also interested in female domination. My concern was for him. I wondered, What will it do to him to be another person's 'slave' and to endure physical punishments?
I do have an excellent relationship with my daughter-in-law to be. So the next time she came around, we talked like we often do. I took a real chance, as I was not too gentle in bringing the topic of female supremacy up. To be totally honest (and I am ashamed to say it) I have found the notion rather exciting. It was probably this which pushed me into a conversation about the topic rather quickly. I produced a print out of your piece where you list out various questions a dominant woman should ask a 'submissive' man. I told her directly that I knew my son had visited this site and that I thought she knew of such things as well. Needless to say, the blood drained from her face. However this only lasted for a moment. I think because she realized that I wasn't mad. She then produced a folded piece of paper and handed it to me. It was your article again. She said she was given it by my son a while ago and she had carried out the steps listed. I was quiet for a moment and she asked if something was the matter (what a question to ask) and I told her no, as long as my son was happy and I knew he was happy then I'd have no problem with "this sort of thing".
My son was watching television at this time and she called him out to the kitchen where we were talking. She told him to show me his 'library'. He turned white straight away, but she just smiled, pushed him to his knees by his shoulder and told him that I knew what they were 'up to'. My son was visibly shaken by all this. He was actually shivering, it was incredible. All I could say was "it's ok son" (not that I knew what I was saying) and she repeated her order and he nodded and went upstairs. He returned with the drawer from his desk, and in there were about 20 books about female dominance. Some factual, some fictional. I recall 'Gynecocracy' and 'Confession of an English Slave' as two of the titles. She must have thought we were all just going to carry on as usual but when she saw I was in no laughing mood she asked if she should go. I said I wasn't mad but that she going would be a good idea, as I needed to think for a while. She smiled and walked out the backdoor. So my son and I were left. I told him it was ok and that he should stop shaking. I even make him some tea to calm him down but he didn't speak to me at all. He rushed off to bed after that.
The next day, I had a very long chat with my son. I told him it would be best if he told me everything now, as I was sure to find out at some time. He agreed to this. He said that two years ago he and his girlfriend signed a 'lifetime slave contract', which committed him to 'bonded servitude' until she dismissed him. He said that he hoped he could serve her for the rest of his life. I asked him what they had planned for the future and what I heard was pretty shocking. Apparently, once they are married, he will live as a 'domestic servant' and slave. If she decides to let him get a job, his wages will be pay pathed directly into an account, which only she may control. If she is displeased, she will whip him and she willfully control their sex life. At this point he undid his belt and pushed his pants down slightly to reveal a chastity device around his penis. I was pretty unnerved. He said he hadn't 'came' in months (a detail I did not really want to know). My son says the model he wears is known as the 'CB 2000' but when he is being 'punished' he must wear something known as 'Kali's Teeth'.
I asked my son at what point he knew he was submissive. He said it was when he was 14 and he was reading a book where the women had certain magical powers and enslaved their men folk. Later, I was talking to my future daughter-in-law. This woman has no fear and was completely open about everything. She must also be able to read minds, as she said she admired how I did not 'totally freak' when I discovered their relationship. She said that I must like the idea so she said I could come along to a 'get together' of people involved in female domination. She did warn that I'd have to know that my son would be on a leash most of the time (i.e. I'd have to be able to bear seeing that) but she would like to show me what goes on. I would never say this to anyone I knew off-line, but I....well....got a surge between my legs and readily agreed to go along. I just would like to see a few men under foot.
I must admit that as shocked as I am about all of this, the notion of a male completely under the thumb of his partner is somewhat erotic. I have no actual problem with the idea of women ruling over men, my only concern is my son's welfare. Therefore, if it was the norm that a wife controlled her husband, I would not have to fear the effect it might have on his well being (or at least fear it less). I wish I knew what drove men to this, why would anyone want to give up power to anyone else so completely? When I was 17my boyfriend wanted me to give him a few slaps, but I never did. I regret that somewhat. I have yet to visit their female domination group but I do plan on going sometime with them. As long as my son is happy, that is all I care about.
From Shane:
Dear Ms Sutton. I recently discovered your web site and I have read every word on there. I am drawn to anything that is about female domination and female supremacy. I recently turned twenty-one and I still live at home with my mother. I have a great trade and I earn more money than most guys my age so I may be getting my own place fairly soon.
The reason I am writing to you is because of my mother and my feelings toward her. I hope this doesn't come across as being perverted or sick, but I am sexually attracted to my mother. My mother is only sixteen years older than I am. She is a beautiful woman and in my eyes, she is a true Goddess. I have always loved and respected my mother. She raised my brother and me with very little financially. She went to college and earned a degree and has found employment in the computer field. We grew up in a house trailer but about five years ago, my mother bought a very expensive home and that is where we live today.
My mother never married but has had many steady boyfriends over the years. We always had a man in our lives, taking us to ballgames, fixing our cars, and even helping my mom do chores around the house. No man has ever been permitted to move in with us but some have dated my mom for long periods of time. Now that I am an adult and my brother is a senior in high school, my mother sends us out of the house quite often. She has always made us sleep over at our grandfather's house often when we were younger and she still insists that we spend some weekends there, even though he only lives about fifteen minutes away.
I tell you all of this because it pertains to my recent discovery. This past summer, my mother went on a cruise with her newest boyfriend. They were gone for about a week. My mother has always restricted us from her bedroom and I always obeyed her wishes. However, this past summer I found myself snooping around in her bedroom. I am not quite sure why I did this but I had a desire to search through my mother's drawers and closets. In her large walk-in closet, she has an oak trunk that she keeps locked. I knew that she had this trunk but had never been permitted to view its contents. My mother always told us that she kept old clothes, linens, and some personal memorabilia in there.
I used a screwdriver and I removed the top of the lock. It was very easy to do, as mom did not invest in a very secure lock on her trunk. I was able to open the lid on the trunk and that is where my surprise awaited me. Her trunk was crammed full with fetish outfits and sex toys. I mean just about anything you can imagine was in this trunk. Whips, paddles, hoods, dildos, leather clothes, rubber clothes, nipple clamps, ball stretchers, cock rings with spikes in them, a leather bra with spikes sticking out, boots with stiletto heels, just to name some of the items.
I was shocked, embarrassed and excited. Then I found a photo album at the bottom of the trunk and two video cassettes. I looked through the album and I couldn't believe what I saw. It contained photos of my mom dominating her boyfriends. She was posing in her various outfits in some of the pictures and in other pictures she must have took the pictures of her men after she had dominated them. Some of the pictures were quite graphic. They showed asses that were bright red with whip marks on them. They showed men's genitals in tight bondage or with hot wax on them. They showed men sucking dildos and men's asses with dildos sticking out of them. Some pictures were taken of men licking her boots that she must have taken herself because they were from an above angle. There were even photos that she took of men between her legs servicing her. She took these photos as she was laying on her back on her bed. She got very close-up shots from that angle.
I then went and played the video tapes on our VCR. Once again they were of my mom dominating her boyfriends. She must have placed the video camera on a tri-pod and aimed it toward her bed while they went at it. Some shots were taken by her boyfriend because they were close-up shots of my mom in her outfits but the majority of the tapes were action shots taken from the tri-pod. I was speechless but the more I watched, the more excited I got.
My mom is gorgeous and powerful in the photos and on the tapes. She is only about five feet three inches tall but she is really built. Very large and shapely breasts and the most perfect ass I have ever seen on a woman. In her fetish outfits, she looks like a Goddess. I found my submissive desires exploding as I viewed my mom in action. She was so bitchy and forceful. These men groveled before her and submitted to her every command. Ms Sutton, I can't explain what was going on inside of me. I have never been so excited or aroused. But it went beyond just sexual, I truly found myself desiring to worship my mother.
I put everything away before my brother got home but I caressed her leather and rubber clothes and I even rubbed some of them against my skin on my face and my bare chest. I felt each of her whips and paddles and I even gave myself a few whacks with them, imagining that she was disciplining me. That is the odd thing. My mother rarely spanked us. She did when we were extra bad but not very often. She usually grounded us or took away our privileges when we were punished. But somehow I developed submissive desires as a teenager. I was drawn to female domination magazines and Internet sites.
When my mom came back from her vacation, I was mesmerized by her. She could tell that something was different about me because she would ask me if anything was wrong. She sometimes tells me that I am looking at her funny and that I seem very eager to please her. She has never asked me about the trunk, so I must have done an excellent job in putting everything back in its place. My mother also comments on how she loves my attitude and my humility around her. She says that I am an excellent son and she appreciates the way I honor her by obeying her when she makes requests of me.
My problem is that I am so taken by her. I find myself becoming sexually aroused in her presence. I so desire to have her dominate me. I find myself trying to think of a way to cleverly bring up the subject about female domination to her to get her response. I was thinking of telling her about my submissive desires toward the female gender. I even purposely leave the history on the computer after I have surfed FemDom sites, all in the hope that she will discover that I have these desires and will ask me about them.
I have dated a number of girls and girls call our house often to talk to me. I am not a momma's boy or an introvert. I have a social life but lately I can't seem to get my mother out of my mind. I want to know about her lifestyle. I want to know how she got involved with it and what are her opinions on female supremacy? I know it is unnatural for a boy to have sexual relations with his mother and I don't really want that but I would love to be dominated by her at least once. I would love for her to teach me how to be a good submissive male and perhaps even help me to find a dominant girlfriend.
Sorry for the length of this letter, Ms Sutton. I know you are in demand but any advice you could give me would be appreciated.
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