DOMMES and STRAPONS 2

From Kelly J:

Elise, we are coming off a memorable week in our ever growing Femdom life and I thought you (and your readers) would enjoy hearing about it. My husband and I are both forty-one and we've been married for fifteen years. He introduced me to Femdom five years ago and we played on and off for three years but the last two have been pretty much 24/7. I make all the decisions and my husband must obey me at all times.

I took our relationship to a new level last week by finally following up with a fantasy we both have been contemplating over these five years. I sort of cuckolded my husband last week and the power of it has given us an incredible week of D&S play. This past week has been very intense and in some ways, mind-blowing.

We occasionally attend a femdom group and that is where I met Ryan. Ryan is ten years younger than I and very handsome. I immediate was attracted to him the first time I met him at a femdom social. This other woman and I did a double Domme session with Ryan and much to my pleasure I discovered that he was not only handsome but also well endowed. I later asked Ryan to measure himself for me and he is eight and a half inches and very thick. Since that night, I have been teasing my husband about how Ryan would be the perfect man for me to cuckold him with. He seemed nervous about my zeal for Ryan and I capitalized on his insecurity to further my control over him. He responded quite nicely.

Last week, I had my first date with Ryan and we ended back at his place for some D&S play. Ryan is submissive and he enjoys being dominated by a woman so I dominated him, complete with a fetish outfit. He had a great time and we both were so excited that I allowed him to perform body worship on me. Being it was our first date, I really was not planning on any intimacy for I wanted to keep it to D&S for now until I got my feet wet with soloing with a man other than my husband. There was real chemistry between us and we both were hot for each other so I allowed him to worship my body. This naturally led to him orally pleasing me and I had multiple orgasms. I did not allow him to penetrate me this time but I did enjoy playing with his large tool while I dominated him and performed come CBT on him.

When I returned home to my husband, he was in a weird frame of mind. I wouldn't call it jealousy but he was docile and unsure of himself. I could tell that he could go either way depending on how I approached this with him. If I allowed him any kind of control of this situation, I could see that he could cop an attitude and become combative. Therefore I did not allow him one ounce of control. I immediately took charge and ordered him to our bedroom.

We have a large, poster bed with a canopy. It is solid oak and very strong. I attached ankle cuffs to the frame over the bed and writs cuffs to the posts next to the headboard. I ordered my husband to strip and I fastened him with the cuffs. He was now lying on his back with his hands bound to the bedposts and his legs up in the air with a slight bend in his knees. This brought his lower back off the bed and made his anus opened and exposed.

I changed back into the same fetish outfit I had worn for Ryan and my husband was quickly drifting off to subspace. I strapped on my waist harness and attached a medium sized dildo. I then began to give my husband the play by play of my night with Ryan as I lubricated the dildo. When I told him how I allowed Ryan to kiss me all over, including deeply and intimately on my lips, and how Ryan ate my pussy, I could tell by my husband's body language and erection that he was very excited. I then made him verbalize to me how I can date and see whomever I desire and how he will always submit to my wishes. He stared at me a little unsure but when I ordered him to tell me in my bitchy tone, he blurted out exactly what I wanted to hear with much enthusiasm and excitement. This made me wet and I was feeling so fucking powerful and sexy.

I then climbed on the bed and straddle my husband. I firmly and aggressively pulled him toward me, causing his legs to swing. I penetrated him with my strap-on and my large breasts were caressing his penis as I began to take him with force. We embarked on a marathon session that was out of this world. I took him like I have never taken him and he submitted like the slut he has become. After thirty minutes of pounding him relentlessly, I took a break and sat in a chair as I eyed my broken husband. Once I regained my energy, I asked the slut if he wanted more. He was full of shame (I could tell) as he shook his head in the affirmative. He wanted more.

I switched the dildo in the harness to a bigger one, one that he had never taken. He pleaded with me to stick with the one he was comfortable with but I told him that we were breaking new ground on this night. I was merciful and eased it into him and coached him as he accepted it. It went in much easier than he thought and I continued the marathon session. I half expected the bed to break from the force I was using on him but it held together nicely. After about five minutes with the larger dildo, he climaxed and became totally spent emotionally. As I continued (I was not quite done with him) he began to plead with me to stop. He was sincere as he asked me if we could stop and I also wanted to stop (as my thighs were killing me by now) but I was not about to stop at his request. His pleading gave me new life so I took him for five more minutes and broke him to a new level. He just layed there and took it like the little slut that he is. He now knows that he must take it until his Mistress is satisfied.

The whole night was out of this world. The next night, we repeated it again. We had another marathon strap-on session (although not as long as the night before) and although it did not match the intensity, it was still erotic and powerful. He verbally confessed once again my right to see Ryan whenever I wanted.

The following night we had a discipline session and the night after that we did some water sports. The focus the entire week was on my new level of power and authority over my husband and his willingness to submit to me completely. We are just now coming down off of this high we have been on. I wanted to write you and give you the details before they begin to fade from my mind.

I will be seeing Ryan again next month and I might take the next step and allow him (order him I should say) to penetrate me with his enormous tool. I can't wait to see the effect that will have on my husband when I tell him the details.

From Martha B:

Dear Elise, Thank you for your informative site. How many times have you heard that already!! I would like to briefly describe my own experiences and perhaps seek some advise.

My husband and I have been in a female dominate relationship for some years (though married for considerably more) and I have found it thoroughly fulfilling. He has learned to obey me and, indeed, to worship me, and I truly believe that he is a better person for the experience. What's more I am confident that he feels this way as well.

Orgasm denial has been a far stronger tool than I could have imagined. I permit him orgasms twice monthly (it took some time to reduce to this level) via supervised masturbation and you wouldn't believe the attention he gives me between times. "Release" days are marked on a calendar and any poor behavior on his part, of course, results in the next day being scrubbed and his having to wait another night. As time has gone on I have become less and less tolerant of any steps out of line (without being ridiculous about it) and he dreads the sight of me calmly walking to the calendar and striking a line through his next 'appointment'.

He is allowed intercourse on his birthday and on our anniversary and so far this has not been denied.

I also insist on physical discipline from time to time which always take a simple and direct form. First of all he is told why he is to be punished and the exact nature of the punishment. He is then stripped naked and leaned over a chair where he remains for some time (I believe the anticipation of what is to come very valuable). He is then caned. Never more than 12 strokes and rarely less than 4. I have found it necessary to restrain him if the sentence is to be greater than 8 strokes. He then stands in the corner with hands on head for at least 30 minutes. This I find to be very effective, though not as varied and perhaps not as severe as some of your other correspondents may think suitable. I am, nevertheless, always interested in any other ideas.

I do not employ a chastity devise and have caught him masturbating numerous times for which he receives 8 strokes. I suspect that he masturbates more regularly than he admits (he never admits to it unless he is caught) and I don't know whether I should increase the punishment as a deterrent. Getting drunk attracts a penalty of 10 strokes and overspending his allowance receives the maximum of 12 - so I want to keep things in perspective. Do you think this appropriate?

I also like to humiliate him from time to time by having him 'accidentally' appear naked before female visitors to the house. I arrange this 'accident' by having him walk from the shower through the living room on his way to the bedroom. I apologized to my female friends on his behalf. My girlfriends have all giggled suitably and I have insisted that, when dressed he apologize to them - much to his further embarrassment.

I have also barred him from viewing me naked, except on days when he is allowed intercourse, and he is blindfolded when servicing me orally, as well as when he massages me. I do not believe in cuckolding, but I have lately become fascinated by the idea of letting other men see me naked in his presence. This, however, poses something of a problem in that I cannot do this without he, too, seeing me naked at the same time. The point is that I want him to know I have the right to do this if I choose, but I don't want him to get any pleasure from it.

This has certainly been a longer letter than I had intended and I thank you for your patience.

DOMMES and STRAPONS 2

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