FEMME DOMMES 5
From Sarah Beth:
My husband showed me your site and I must say that I am impressed with you. I agree with your overall philosophy because I have always known that I was superior to men. I have never doubted that fact. However, I have no interest in D&S or leather sex. If a man wants the honor of submitting to me, he must do it on my terms and my terms alone.
I use a sensual form of domination on my husband. I never raise my voice and I never bark out bitchy commands. That just isn't my personality. I don't like fetish clothing as I think they are too bizarre looking. I like to wear sensual lingerie or I wear nothing at all. I would never spank or whip him and I sure would never torture him. Like I said, that is not in my personality.
I told my husband my demands and he seemed disappointed because I know that he desires me to do these things to him. But I told him my terms and he could take it or leave it. He took it. My terms were that he has to do all the household chores, without me feminizing him or standing over him with whip in hand. He must come home from work and do his chores period or I will no longer dominate him. He must do all the cooking. I can come and go as I please but he must always get my permission before he does anything. If he does a good job with his chores, his reward will be to worship my body and to orally please me. If he displeases me, he will not get access to my female body for that entire week. He will be allowed to orgasm once a week by masturbating in my presence. If I ever find out that he has ever had an unauthorized orgasm, he will lose access to my body for an entire month and I will buy him a chastity device.
Those were my demands and he accepted them. Thus far, he has obeyed all of my demands. I am loving our new life as I do live like a Queen. I expect him to submit to me just because I am a superior female. No D&S and no S&M. I agree with your philosophy and like I said, I am impressed with you, Ms Sutton. Yet, I felt it was important to write to you to tell you that a wife can enjoy the benefits of this lifestyle without all the hardcore domination. What do you think?
From James T:
Miss Sutton, it took me long while to bring myself to write this mail. In fact up till two weeks ago, i would never have considered writing such a mail. It cannot be said enough times - how easy it is for woman to overwhelm a man with her sexuality. I'm sure a woman of your experience can
testify to that.
I'm a 28yr old man who considers himself happily married to a beautiful lady of 35. However please allow me to describe myself in a way that's relevant to this story before focusing on my wife. As far as lifestyle goes, I'm quite well off as a highly paid finance consultant. I lead an active
life with a high social circle and possess a physique that anyone would not mind being pictured in the nude. Most would even say I'm well endowed, if you'll excuse my arrogance.
The unusual point about my year old marriage besides my wife being slightly senior, is that I'm Chinese while she's Caucasian (Italian American). This is by no means any reason for friction but in some cases the cultural differences in terms of expectations may create misunderstandings.
What attracted me to Sarah was her confidence and assertiveness. Not that she wasn't physically attractive. In fact she with her 'dancer's' body never fail to turn heads wherever she goes. It was foolish of me to think that she would be strong and assertive only when it suited me and that she would be meek and submissive when I wanted her to be. In a Chinese household, the husband is always boss? The wife stays home to clean, cook and serve her husband when he returns from work at the end of the day? WRONG!
Well Sarah was doing all that for a while. She was even accommodating when I wanted sex. In many ways, I'm guilty of taking her for granted even though I truly love her. Recently, she became distant and cold towards me. Naturally all things ran through my mind - whether she was having an affair, whether she had problems with our in laws, her diminishing social circle (she was once
working). Finally I sat us down and spoke to her. She said she needed more control over her life, she spoke of her needs even sexual needs. At the time, my reaction was one of shock, surprise and hurt. I had assumed she was happy and that I was sexually satisfying her. Of course the overriding point was that she was unhappy and that I wanted to make her happy at any cost.
For a start, she mentioned that she wanted to start working and that with her good money sense, she could handle our finances even my allowances. I also wanted to get a maid to accommodate her job but she rather have me do the chores. It's strange but I never really have an issue with doing the chores or allowing my wife to make the financial decisions since she was clearly capable. From my conservative upbringing, I just assume that men just naturally handle such things while the women took on roles of homemaking.
Anyway, it was easier said than done. My day always ended late after the chores and I always acceded to my Sarah's request of a body massage before turning in. All in all I was tired at the days end. However Sarah's mood changed. She became happier and I was happy to obliged her requests because the truth is I'm glad to see her happy.
It would have been a happy ending but I have problems adjusting to Sarah's change in sexual needs. She would want sex only when and where she felt like it. Many a time, I've approached her in bed only to be rejected. She would say she's tired or not in the mood for it. However when she felt like it, my instant arousal (erection) made it impossible to say no. On an occasion, after a period of hugging and cuddling, I became frustrated when she said she was tired. I blurted something I shouldn't have. I said if she was tired of doing it like we've always done, she could always give me a blow job.At that, her eyes widened. I saw a flash of anger before she said she never enjoyed giving blow jobs because it always made her feel submissive and subservient so she would not be giving me one ever and I should not expect one. From my position of sexual denial, all I heard was that she had given blow jobs before to other guys but I was denied such treatment now. To further aggravate the situation, she suggested that if I was into oral sex, I COULD go down on her.
My male pride rose that day and I said I've eaten many pussies before but I had no wish to go down on her unless she gave me a blowjob. The truth is that I've never eaten pussy before but am ashamed to tell her that. Certainly after learning she had given blow jobs before, my pride did not allow me to confess that I did not know how to satisfy a woman orally.
You may think it's childish but this is the line for me which if I went over, I would be completely submissive to Sarah. I want her to be happy and yet I'm afraid to lose all control. Must a man surrender all male pride in order to please a woman? Is that right? That episode spoilt our sex
life for sure.
I was mulling over this for weeks, not getting any relief until I relented. I thought I could please her once and perhaps she'll take a step forward with me. So two nights ago, I prepared a candle lit dinner at home, arranged a hot bubble bath for her. When Sarah got home, she was clearly
surprised and pleased. We had a silent dinner staring at one another. Nothing was said but her looks spoke volumes. Later as she sat on the couch sipping wine, I whispered that I've prepared a hot bubble bath for her and what I wanted to do for her. I told her I wanted to even if she did not return the favor.
She said it was so sweet of me and to my surprise she raised her skirt and removed her panties immediately. I asked if she would be more comfortable after a warm bath and got a shock when she said she needed it now. I smiled and hesitantly moved my face to her crotch. The next half hour or so was mind blowing. Her scent and taste was so strong that my senses were completely overwhelmed. Although it was not unpleasant, I felt my sense of smell invaded by her musky aroma. Her creamy taste filled my mouth. All the while, I felt her fists squeezing my hair pushing me harder against her thick bush. I didn't think I did much except to lick and suck her as best as I could. I could hear her moaning and used her moans to guide my oral ministrations. Twice I felt a thick flow to a spurt of her salty juices entering my open lips.
After what seemed like an eternity, I felt her hands releasing their grip on my head and I pulled my face up. Sarah looked at me grinning, her face flushed. She patted me on the head and said I was such a good pussy eater. I did not know how to respond except to smile foolishly. In truth, I felt
a little humiliated at being patted on the head and being called a pussy eater, especially since it became apparent that Sarah might have guessed it was my first time.
On the other hand, I felt a sense of pride that I made Sarah happy. I gave a startled jump on my knees as I felt Sarah's toes pinched the head of my erection. When she said she wanted her bath, I carried her to her bath and slowly rubbed a soft sponge over her body at her request. She seemed to enjoy my constant arousal and erection as much as my pampering of her.
After her bath, I was so light headed with desire that I was prepared to do anything for her. Later that night as we were lying on bed, she thanked me for a wonderful evening and suggested that I did this everyday. I got an amused look from her when I said I would have to take a half day leave from work everyday to prepare a dinner and bath like that. She smiled coyly and said she did not mean the dinner and bath but pleasing her orally.
I still feel a little resistance at giving in to her demands. Did she not guess I had never eaten pussy before? That I still harbor hopes of her pleasing me especially since I've taken a step forward to please her. Actually, I do not know if I can say no to her. I gave a half hearted comment to salvage some pride and control by saying she had better shave herself for me to consider going down on her again. Sarah laughed and said the thick bush made her feel wild and she had no intention of shaving it. She said "Don't worry dear, you'll get used to that!!" Before I could protest, she moved over me, kissed me and we made love. It was a big release for me. She wanted me to wait for her 'wet spot' to form before having me clean her with a warm towel. Only then we slept.
Now I feel happy she's so happy but I feel as if my pride has been slighted. I'm not sure how to react to my wife's growing sexual aggressiveness. Placing my lips on a woman's genital area was a first for me that evening and in many ways submitting to my wife is a first for me. Should I retain some control or authority over her as a balance in the relationship? I know what is the right course of action to take. The decision is mine and yet I'm still standing at the crossroads knowing that my decision to submit to my wife would be permanent.
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