FEMME DOMMES 2
From Robert B:
Dear Ms Sutton, I have recently discovered your site on the internet and enjoy it very much. I have a female-dominant relationship with my wife and you might be interested in my story. I'm 31 and my wife is 36. We've known each other for 6 years and have been married the last 5. My wife is very dominant in our relationship. Let me explain.
I met my wife when I was working for a few months in a temporary position at the company where she also worked. I've since moved on professionally but she's still with them. Up until I met her I can't say that I was very experienced sexually. I'd lost my virginity with a girlfriend at college when I was 19, but we broke it off a few months later and since then my only sexual outlet had been masturbation. As I later found out not long before we met, my wife had ended an 8-year-long relationship with a man 12 years her senior. I don't yet know many details since my wife won't talk about him and as you will see my position in our marriage does not allow me to put any pressure on her, but from what I've gathered it seems they had a very intense relationship with a strong BDSM aspect.
That's probably where my wife got her somewhat "special" tastes but who was the dominant partner in that previous relationship of hers or why the relationship ended, I'm not sure. Anyway, I was attracted to my wife and, being young and inexperienced, I'm sure I made my interest in her quite obvious in somewhat clumsy ways. We went out for drinks and such a couple of times and finally she invited me to her flat one Saturday night. She said she knew that I found her attractive and wanted sex but she explained our relationship had to be absolutely on her terms, both sexually and otherwise. As she put it she did not want me to put any sort of pressure on her if I didn't like it, I was free to go but I should never expect anything more from her than what she was willing to give me. I agreed and that's how our relationship started.
I believe my wife must have initially thought I would soon tire of her and break it off but I'm proud to say we've been together ever since. We got married about a year after we first linked up. Our joint life is peculiar, to say the least. Sex is always on her terms as she decides when and where we have sex and what kind of sex we have. Mostly it's me orally servicing her. When we first met I wasn't at all experienced in orally pleasuring a woman but she soon changed that by long sessions of me licking her out to detailed instructions. Now I can easily bring her to orgasm with my tongue pretty soon and in fact, I'm required to do that more or less every other night on weekdays.
True to her word my wife was not very concerned with my orgasms. As I remember when we first became intimate, I didn't come for the first five or six encounters. She would just ask me to lick her to multiple orgasms and would then lose interest and completely ignore me. Finally, after yet another marathon cunnilingus section she must have sensed my arousal because she told me to follow her to the bathroom. There she stood naked with her feet planted slightly apart and ordered me on my knees on the tiles in front of her. She then told me I had her permission to jerk off. It was a bit of a disappointment since I expected something more fun than a wank job, but I desperately needed relief and lost no time in pumping my cock. She stopped me a few times ordering me to kiss her feet, which I did very passionately. When she sensed I was about to cum, she directed me to cum on her feet and then made me lick my cum off her. This is still one of her favorite ways of giving me relief.
Later she also added hand jobs. For those she orders me on my back, climbs on my face in the "queening" position and absolutely demands that I kiss her asshole while she's pumping my member. If I'm not fervent enough in my kisses on her hole, she'll yell at me, threaten to stop and occasionally she slaps my cock.
I don't orgasm from intercourse very often. Usually on weekends she orders me on my back and impales herself on my cock. She then rides me in positions that allow for maximum stimulation to her clit but don't make it very easy for me to cum. All the while I must play with her breasts. Most of the times when she's had her orgasms she will simply climb off and then give me relief with her hand or order me to masturbate. Every five weeks or so she doesn't climb off but instead holds my arms above my head and presses down on my cock very hard. A few minutes of hard pumping in that position is usually enough to make me explode inside of her.
She always makes a point of climbing onto my face immediately and doesn't climb back down until I have sucked every drop of my cum from her pussy. To begin with, I used to find that very difficult because having just cum, my sexual excitement and motivation was at near zero level. Nowadays I'm used to it and when she fucks me, I even find it exciting to think about what will follow. In our five years of marriage I've only had intercourse with my wife with her on top and I've always ate my own cum out of her afterwards.
One evening soon after our marriage my wife produced a big strap on dildo. This was completely out of the blue and I don't know where the dildo came from or how long she'd had it. She proceeded to fuck my virgin asshole with my arms shackled to the headboard. Ever since she's repeated that activity, which she calls dildo discipline, once a month. It brings out a sadistic streak in her since she fucks me very hard and pays no attention to my cries of agony. In fact I've realized it positively excites her to hear me cry out and believe me she gives me plenty of reason to. On one or two occasions the pain and humiliation was such that I burst into tears and generally it always is a very intense experience.
After she's done fucking me she always makes me lick her out and another way I can tell her excitement is by her dripping cunt. She's very cruel and bitchy with me for a couple of days after a strap-on session. She cracks jokes about my ass hurting or what a cry-baby I was begging for mercy and tells me I'm a pathetic man that lets his wife fuck him in the ass. During that time she makes me serve her orally a lot. But I must admit I find the humiliation exciting too. If she allows me to jerk off after such an intense session, there's plenty of cum to lick off her feet.
Sometimes I think my sex life with my wife is weird. What bothers me a little is that she refuses to discuss anything with me. Even now, after six years of marriage, I sense that her attitude is still "put up or get out". I dare not make any suggestions or raise any concerns. The same holds true in other areas of our life. She makes the decisions paying little heed to my opinions or objections if I dare to air them, which is not very often. But when all is said and done she's decent to me as long as I follow her directions. Although she's not very expressive with her emotions, I believe she loves me in her own way. I hope we'll grow old together.
From Michael E:
Dear Ms Sutton, I have been ordered by my wife to write you and to share our story. It is with great humility that I request that you post it on your site. My wife wants our story posted as another exercise in my humiliation. I am including my actual first name and real last initial so my wife will be able to tell some of our friends to read it.
My wife Carla is a staunch female supremacist. I introduced her to the female domination lifestyle eight years ago with the hope that she might be open to dominating me some in the bedroom. Carla struggled a little with it in the beginning but she is an educator and once she became educated about female domination, she took to it like a duck in water. She loves it and has evolved into a firm believer in female supremacy.
She has used my submissive tendencies and fetish desires to train me to be her total servant. I do all the household chores from the cooking to the cleaning to the laundry. My entire life revolves around serving her and the women she loans me out to serve. I work a full-time job and make a nice income that is deposited into her account and which she totally controls. I come home after work and prepare her dinner and tend to her house. I am required to do all the grocery shopping and to run errands for her. I also tend to her personal needs as I paint her nails, give her bubble baths, give her massages and provide her sexual pleasure when she requests it.
Sex is now totally about her pleasure. Carla is a firm believer that women are sexual beings and men exist to serve women. Therefore, I am kept chaste and forbidden to orgasm. I have a prince albert piercing and a chastity device installed. I have not had an orgasm in the past 18 months. I am given relief only through occasional prostate milkings. When I pleasure my wife, it is through oral servitude and using her toys on her. She also likes to use this chin strap on me that attaches a rubber penis to my face and she rides the dildo on my face while I tongue her clit or her ass. It is very uncomfortable and very physically demanding for me to perform like this but Carla has tremendous orgasms this way.
I know what I just described about male orgasm denial and female sexual pleasure is very common within a female supremacy marriage and a female domination lifestyle. The one area that I have not seen addressed much on your site that my wife wants me to convey in our story is the pleasure a woman can obtain from a clit ring. My wife has her clit pierced and she is now able to have multiple orgasms through out the day. The stimulation the clit ring provides her causes her to have to change her panties a number of times everyday as she becomes wet from the sexual stimulation.
Carla can now orgasm from wearing a tight pair of jeans and just walking. The tight jeans rub her clit ring and causes her pleasurable sensations. She also carries a small vibrator in her purse and she can stimulate herself to orgasm in a matter of minutes, no matter where she is. Carla has become a very sexual woman and her appetite for sex has grown enormous.
Carla loves to humiliate me by constantly reminding me that she has orgasms on a daily basis whereas I have been denied for a year and a half. She relishes in this power advantage over me and this helps to keep me in submission to her. The clit ring also makes it more pleasurable when I, or another man, perform oral sex on her. The ring provides her with extra stimulation. I mentioned "or another man" because Carla has a long distance relationship with a man whom she cuckolds me with when they get together. They only get together a couple of times a year but she has sex with him and uses him to humiliate me further. He is allowed to penetrate her with his penis as he is better endowed than I am. I have been forced to watch them have sex on a few occasions and it is very embarrassing and humiliating. He is also a submissive man but Carla allows him more liberties than I since she does not live with him. She likes to keep me humiliated, submissive and chaste so I will continue to be easily trainable.
My wife has given me permission to express my feelings and to ask you a question about a concern I have. I must confess that I enjoy our current arrangement and marriage. If you would of told me that this was where we were headed when I first introduced my wife to female domination, I would have never done so. It sounds cruel and radical, but while I will admit that it is difficult remaining chaste and being the servant of such a demanding woman, I also must confess that I have never been happier. I love my wife and I have bonded with her in a very special way. I desire her more today than I ever have and I love serving her. Her power and control over me is a submissive man's dream. It is intense and it satisfies me on some level. I am not complaining about her dominance or her female supremacy beliefs. I admire women and worship women. At times she will loan me out to her friends to do housework for them. I get a real satisfaction in serving my wife's friends in a domestic way. I give it my all at all times because I know my service reflects on my wife. She takes pride in how well she has me trained.
My concern is that Carla much too frequently reveals our lifestyle to others, especially her friends. She does it to humiliate me and to tell other women about the benefits of this lifestyle. I don't mind that she makes me out to be this hen-pecked husband and worm of a man who does all the household chores. That is embarrassing enough but I have lost my male pride and I am no longer concerned about what members of my gender may think of me. My problem is when she tells others about our sex lives, or in my case the lack of one. She tells other women about her clit ring and about my prince albert piercing. She even makes me pull down my pants to show women my chastity device. I get very embarrassed when this happens.
I am afraid that word will eventually get back to my family members and to me, that would be too embarrassing to bare. They already know what a pussy-whipped husband I am and how when Carla says "jump", I say "how high?" I know my family, especially my father and brothers, talk about me behind my back about what a wimp I am to my overly dominant wife. I no longer care about that because we have a better marriage than any of them. However, I could never face them if they knew about our sex life.
Carla has promised that she will never reveal our lifestyle to her family or my family. My concern is that the more people she tells, the greater chance there is that word will make it back to one of my family members. I have a large family and while we live in the suburbs of a large city, I still fear that it is only a matter of time before the cat is totally out of the bag. Your advice would be greatly appreciated. Carla wants me to close by telling you that she loves you and appreciates all you have done for women and the cause of female supremacy.
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