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From Julia:

 

Dear Elise, Thank you for such an informative and educational web site. My husband and I have been reading it for two years now. In that time, I have really grown as a Dominant woman and our marriage has really changed for the better.

 

Like most women, I was hesitant and I had my doubts at first when my husband approached me about his submissive nature. We attended a D&S support group meeting and we visited a Professional Dom together. Then about a year ago, I ordered your procedures and began to do one per week on him. What a life changer they were. By the time we got to the Marriage Contract procedure, I was certain that I was ready to go all the way with this lifestyle. I had never wanted anything so badly in all my life. My husband was very hesitant as the more dominant I grew, the more concerned her was that he was losing too much control. Well, he was right because I did take all control from him. I got him to sign that marriage contract and I didn't stop there.

 

The one plank in that contract that really excited me was the one where I was allowed to deny him orgasms while I was entitled to as many as I wanted. I can't explain why this excited me so much but it did. The Challenge procedure was great and I got a taste of what it was like to deny him for a prolonged period of time and I loved it. He was so much better behaved and attentive to my needs when he was sexually frustrated and denied.

 

I got in the habit of denying him longer and longer periods of times. Then when I did allow him an orgasm, it was in humiliating ways, like making him hump my leg like a dog. I on the other hand, made my husband give me lots of orgasms. He became quite skilled at orally servicing me while at the same time he fucked me with one of my large and thick dildos. My sex drive has never been as strong as it has been this past year I am having the most intense orgasms of my life.

 

I wanted to experiment with the whole cuckolding thing, as the thought of another man having sex with me while my sexually denied and frustrated husband was forced to watch, really excited me. But things took a very unexpected turn about three months ago. Through this D&S group we attend on rare occasions, I met a woman who is a staunch Feminist. She is really a believer in Female supremacy and Female domination. She also happens to be a lesbian. Now I have never been a lesbian and I have never fantasized about having sex with a woman. However, I found myself attracted to this woman and vice versa. We developed a friendship and now we have become lovers. This has been wonderful.

 

She loves to help me dominate my husband and she is a total believer in male chastity. Last month, against my husband's protests, we had a permanent chastity device installed on him. We took him and had him get a Prince Albert piercing in his penis and my friend bought him a chastity tube from a Mistress Lori she found on the web and we installed it. It locked through the Prince Albert piercing and now he can't escape no matter how hard he tries because I have the key and we cut off and filed the end of the screws. He can function normally as far as going to the bathroom and showering but he can't orgasm with this device installed. I don't know when I will allow him to orgasm again. He' s been denied for two months now as I denied him for a month before he got the Prince Albert piercing and chastity device and now he's been wearing it for an additional month.

 

My husband is not happy about this arrangement to say the least but I know how to read him and I can tell that deep inside he is excited about his lot. His submission is really growing. I now make him do all of the cooking and housework. We got a French-maid outfit for him and we make him dress in that or in other feminine clothing as he does his chores each evening. He still goes to work each day but his paycheck is deposited into my account and I only give him a small allowance. He comes home each night and changes into his maid outfit and cooks my dinner and goes about his chores.

 

I discipline him once a week as I grade his housework. If he's been a good boy, I pull him over my lap and give him a hard spanking with my paddles and hairbrush. If he hasn't pleased me or if he has displayed any negative male behavior during the week, I take him to the basement and I tie him to the post and I administer a severe whipping using my whips and canes. Regardless if it is a spanking or a whipping, after his punishment, I strap-on my rubber phallus and I fuck him up his ass long and hard to remind him that he is in submission to me. Strap-on play always breaks him and causes him to melt into deep submission. Strap-on play is the only kind of sex he receives now that I have a female lover.

 

My lover comes over about three nights a week for sex. My husband must wait on us, prepare diner and be ready to bring us anything that we request. Making love to a woman is very sensual and I never dreamed it could be so erotic. I must admit that what makes it so special is the thought that my husband is being denied and cut off from my pussy.

 

We have put my husband on a very strict diet and exercise regiment as he goes to the gym four mornings a week before he goes to work. We also give him regular enemas as my female lover assists me in this task. She loves to watch him squirm from the enema as he begs us for permission to relieve himself. He fasts for twenty-four hours before we give him the enema. He has never been in better shape or health as he is now. Our goal is to further his feminization in the months to come. I always remind him that he is the one who introduced this lifestyle to me therefore he had better get use to being my little sissy submissive husband.

 

I wanted to share this with you Elise and thank you again for your procedures and your site. I know that I have taken this lifestyle further than you or your procedures recommend but that is just how my growth has gone. I never expected to become such a Feminist and Female Supremacist and I definitely never expected to become a lesbian. I am still not sure that I will always be in a lesbian relationship because I still am attracted to men. My lover knows that I am still committed to my husband and that while I value her friendship and care very deeply for her, the sexual part of this relationship is still a part of my growth and experimentation in my own sexuality. My heart still belongs toward my husband even if I do enjoy him being chaste and denied.

 

 

 

From Bruno M:

 

I am a 27 year old man from Italy (sorry for my english). I married two years ago. At the beginning all was ok, but after few months my wife, a beautiful woman 29 year old, started to talk about women domination. She said that I had to submit to her. I was astonished. She asked me to wear a chastity device. I accepted, just thought it was a joke. But it was not a joke. After few days I asked my wife to remove the device, she said no. I could not get it off and she had the key. It was very frustrating.

 

Even worse, she started to tease me all the time. When at home, she was always very sexy, often completely naked. After two weeks of such treatment I become almost crazy and accepted to completely submit to my wife. Now I do all the things that usually women do at home and all (money too) is under control of my wife. I always wear this chastity device. About twice a month I am allowed to masturbate. I do this during a party organized by my wife for other women that she wants to introduce to a dominant style of life.

 

Her friends (all women) that she invites really enjoy my performance. I am dressed like a young girl, with a frilly bra and a short skirt. This is short enough that the chastity device is easily in view. I must serve them tea very politely. Her friends often want to take a close look at the device and see how I can piss while wearing it. So we go to the bathroom, where I sit and pee like a woman. To piss this way, namely seated like a woman, in front of other women is terribly embarrassing for me.

 

In the first weeks of our marriage we had sex all the time. In my view this is what women want. But now my wife keeps me locked in this device and sex is forbidden with her. Forced chastity destroyed my male ego and now I am completely submitted to her. Please post this on your site as she is requesting that I write you to further my humiliation.

 

 

 

From Ms Claire:

 

Elise, I now have discovered another way to frustrate the man I love, my husband. As if sex and orgasm denial through cuckolding isn't enough, I've now decided to embrace the art of "Boot Denial." Let me explain.

 

My husband is a boot fanatic. The moment he sees them on women (and especially me, in our own home), he gets erect. Plain heels do nothing for him, but my black leather, knee high platform boots drive him insane. He works hard and he bought me a pair of sexy black leather platform boots. To further my dominance over him, I've decided that from now on my husband will see me in heels only. The only time I'm going to wear my new boots is when I'm going to visit my boyfriend. I told my husband that, even though he worked hard to buy me those boots, they are no longer "for him." They are for my boyfriend who, quite coincidentally, is wacky about boots too. It's an honor to wear them for him.

 

Also, in an attempt to shame my husband even more, he is to buy the condoms that my boyfriend and I use during sex. We save our money to enjoy times out together, but my husband's dough supports our healthy, sexual lifestyle. I always request that he buy the "extra large" size, which my well endowed boyfriend needs.

 

It has now been close to four months (I believe) since my husband's last orgasm. He is suffering, I can tell. But I, on the other hand, am enjoying life. I enjoy sex and dating my boyfriend, and I simply adore playing the bitch, teasing and making my husband feel shame and suffering. I think he hates being denied access to worshiping me in my boots more than he hates being denied orgasms. But he told me one thing. He loves me. And I love him.

 

 

 

From Ray L:

 

Dear Mistress Elise, I am writing to you at the request of my mistress. She has asked me to tell you about our lifestyle.

 

Before I get started, I also wanted to share an opinion Mistress and I both share about a letter posted on your web site. The letter is from a 21 year old virgin who is kept permanently chaste and dominated by his live in Aunt (Adam B. in the Older Women/younger men section). Mistress and I agree that being his Aunt, it is not appropriate for them to continue in this relationship, but since the submissive who wrote the letter is interested in being a submissive, we thought we might offer a suggestion.

 

If his Mistress Aunt is willing, perhaps she could find a suitable Mistress for him among the exotic dancing community where she works. The advantage of this is that he could remain chaste and a virgin. His new Mistress could then deal with his virginity as she sees fit. We both feel strongly that if he is serious about being a submissive, he should state in a ceremony that gives her complete authority over his orgasms and sexual release. It is our sincere hope that his new Mistress would keep him permanently chase and virginal. If they are both willing, this would be a beautiful manifestation of female superiority and devoted male submission.

 

As far as our own lifestyle, Mistress and I met on the Internet 4 years ago and we talked at great length about our sexual interests and the topic of female superiority. Mistress is very, very serious about orgasm denial. Once it was established that we were serious about meeting each other in person and possibly exploring a lifestyle together, mistress insisted that I give up masturbation all together and wear a chastity device for her. If I was serious about being her submissive, I would be honored to be her chaste servant and give her complete authority over my orgasms and sexual release.

 

Her demand was an incredible turn on and I told her so, but as exciting as this was to think about, I told her I wasn't sure if I had the self discipline to go through with it. She said; "Silly, that is what the chastity device is for!" She had a point, and I agreed to give it a try.

 

Mistress pointed me to a very secure chastity device she had seen on the web and asked me to purchase it and notify her once it had arrived and I had been wearing it continually for at least 1 week. There was to be no contact between us until this had transpired. If I found that I could not go through with it, she would understand, but it would be the end of our relationship and there would be no more contact between us. I agreed and the rest is history.

 

I contacted her after a hellish week of wearing the device. Mistress asked me how it fit and if it was comfortable. I said that it was, but that the sexual frustration was unbelievable. Mistress was pleased!

 

Mistress asked me if I was still willing to go forward with our plans and I told her that I was. Mistress told me to remain in the device and that she would mail me a lock to which she had the key. If I were still serious about being her submissive, I would be honored to do wear her lock. I agreed to this and to make a long story short, I spent a sexually frustrating, but incredibly exciting six months of sexual torment online and over the telephone before she agreed to meet me in person.

 

When we finally did meet in person it was according to her detailed instructions. She mailed me the directions and a key to her home and instructed me to go there while she was still at work. The instructions said I was to go to the living room where there was a camcorder set up. I was to turn it on and set it to record. Then I was to stay in front of the camera at all times. The instructions said I was to strip completely naked, put a pair of her soiled panties over my mouth and nose and then put on and lock a leather hood (with a mouth opening) onto my head. Then I was to kneel facing the camera and put on a pair of handcuffs behind my back and wait for her. I was to remain on my knees and she would review the video to assure that I did not lower my behind to sit on my legs.

 

I did exactly as she instructed and the tension and arousal inside my chastity device was incredible. After what seemed like several hours, I heard her come in the house. She came into the room, she said hello and that she was happy to see that I had complied with all of her instructions. She said she was going to test me tonight to see if I were worthy to be a live in submissive and if I did not pass it would be over between us. If I did pass the test, I would be her live in slave and among other things, I would be eating an incredible amount of pussy! I heard her ask me to nod if I would like that. Of course I nodded vigorously.

 

Well that night, I orally serviced her many times while still wearing the hood. This went on for hours. I also receive golden showers from her in the bathtub. Later that night, she asked me if I was still willing to commit to being her live in submissive and to finally see her for the first time. I nodded that I was and she removed the hood and panties from my face. It took a moment for my eyes to adjust to the light, but once they did, I reveled in her beauty! I was totally enamoured by what I hoped would become my new lifestyle Mistress.

 

She asked me if I were ready to commit to her and I said that I was. She asked me to sign a line on a contract where I agreed never to orgasm without permission and that I would never ask, hint or imply that I would like sexual attention. I signed another line agreeing never to masturbate for the duration of our relationship. Another signature that I would never orgasm with anyone other than her. Yet another signature agreeing to wear a chastity device when and as she saw fit, including a permanent device if that was her desire. Another signature agreeing that I would make no demands of any kind or have any say over her sex life or love life. I was to be her servant and not her lover. Another signature that I would agreed to serve any and all of her female friends in any way she saw fit. And finally a signature that I agreed to give her exclusive and total authority over my orgasms and sexual release and that I would abide by her rules without question.

 

After signing, she thanked me for making a commitment to her and then she told me that she was going to explain some of her policies to me on the topic of sex. She explained that since I was a servant, I would never be allowed to penetrate her or anyone else. She also explained that She has never and has no intention of giving hand jobs or blow jobs to servants and that she would not allow anyone else to perform this on me either. That would be totally degrading.

 

She asked me if I would like to ask any questions. I thought a moment and asked her about all of the restrictions on my sexual and orgasmic activities and how or when would I be allowed to have an orgasm. She said that is a very good point, because between the way we have contracted our relationship and her policies, there really wasn't a way for me to have an orgasm. She then said that since there was no provision for me to have an orgasm, it would probably be best for me to wear a permanent chastity device and have it secured with piercings. I told her I wasn't sure about this, but she said I signed all of the contracts willing and then she said that I had to admit the idea of this was an incredible turn on. I had to agree that it was. She asked me if I would be able to serve her with honor and I said that it would be a deep honor to serve her.

 

Well, it has been several years since my last orgasm and I am in a constant state of arousal. As frustrating as it is, I must admit that I like it very much and Mistress is always saying how my permanently chaste state ensures that I will always know who is in charge around here. And of course, Mistress is right. Once a month, Mistress gives me a prostate milking to keep me healthy.

 

So, what is our life like? Well, Mistress brings me to D/s social events and we host them often as well. I am always available to serve her and her friends in any way they desire. I serve Mistress often have even been permitted to orally service a few of her female friends. I must tell you that oral servitude while chaste is an incredible experience. The arousal is so intense that it can not be described. I don't think I will ever completely adjust to the fact that I will never be able to orgasm in any way or fashion, but Mistress does a good job of keeping this interesting and titillating for me.

 

 

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