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CUCKOLDRY IN MARRIAGE

  

  

CUCKOLDRY IN MARRIAGE

  

  

  

  

  

The term has made a resurgence in the late 20th century amongst couples with a dominant female allowed to take on additional partners, and a submissive male is either monogamous to her or denied sex altogether, aside from performing oral sex. Some dominant women have their male partner watch them have sex with others, but the more common practice is for the domme to go out on dates, while her sub or slave stays at home. Some dominants have their sub or slave perform oral sex on them after they have had sex with another man. In some cases, the dominant woman's sex partner may be submissive to her, while other times, she simply engages in vanilla sex with him.

 

 

Most female-dominant couples who practice cuckoldry tend to be in their thirties or older. It is common for the dominant woman to take on younger men when cuckoldry her primary partner. In these cases, the younger partner is a mere "boytoy," and there is no possibility of a serious relationship developing.

 

 

Cuckoldry among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckoldry in that many of these men are voluntarily "cuckolded" by their wives, as part of the husband's sexual fantasy of gaining sexual pleasure from being humiliated by his wife?indeed, the husband may even be the instigator of this practice, raising questions about who is truly the dominant and who the truly submissive partner.

 

 

 

 

Cuckold marriage

  

Inherent in submissive behavior is the understanding that submissive husband needs to be obedient to his dominant wife, her rules and the agreed upon parameters of the established F/m relationship.

  

I have always known my place to be in service and respect to women; it's just who I am. I've also always believed that a true submissive male wants to be obedient - partly because disobedience displeases the one in charge and because the whole purpose of being in an F/m relationship is to please and serve - not anger or disappoint. I'm not a man who 'baits' his partner in order to be 'punished' - what's the point? Being in a relationship of this kind is about serving, pleasing and doing what she wants.

  

For me, "obedience" means doing as I'm told the first time - with alacrity and good humor. I do not need or wish to be told a second of third time to do something - I want to do it right the first. I also want her to to be proud of the work I've accomplished and know my eagerness and desire to do it is a reflection of my devotion and respect for her authority and dominance. She should know that when she asks for something it's truly my pleasure to do it for her - regardless of the task at hand. And when I fail - I expect there will be consequences.

  

As for "disobedience" - I'm not a masochist or pain-seeker. I acknowledge I have limited say in whether I'm punished for failure but hope my partner will use discretion and understand that when physical correction is required it will be done with love and understanding that serving without fault or question is my motivation.

 

 

 

 

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