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CUCKOLD, CUCKOLDRY and HUMILIATION

  

  

Humiliation in a cuckold relation has many faces. There is the masochistic pleasure that being humiliated produces in the cuckold. There's also the sadistic pleasure that being humiliating is felt by the wife. And there's the humiliation made by the bulls, the wife's friends, and complete strangers. There are intimate humiliations, when you're alone with your wife ("he was so much better than you..."), somehow private humiliations ("look how my cock is sucked by your wife's pussy, cuckold"), and public humiliations of many kinds.

 

 

 

There are also verbal humiliations and visual humiliations, etc.

For the total cuckold, humiliation is simply a strong appeal.

 

 

 

 

Some cuckold humiliation ideas:

 

 

- Wearing a chastity device, but the lover holds the key.

 

- Licking the wife and her lover as they screw.

 

- Having sex only with the inflatable doll, but as a new twist, the only doll the cuckold is allowed to screw is a TV doll.  Of course hubby is required to suck of the doll's cock, and clean the doll up afterwards.

 

- Dressing the hubby up in a maids' outfit, then having your girlfriends come over and be served by him.  All the while talking about how good your lover is.  Encourage them to continuously tease and taunt him about his inability to be a real man, not only while visiting, but afterwards as well.  If there's any of his old girlfriends still around, invite them over too.

 

- Make hubby eats his food out of a dog bowl in front of your lover.  Make sure your lover has made a contribution to your hubbys' nutrition.

 

- Invite gay men over to enjoy your hubby.  Let them know they can use him when and how they wish.

 

- Order a subscription to Playgirl, make sure its in your hubby's name, and be sure its out in the open for everyone to see.

 

-  Invite hubby out on a date with the wife and the bull, make him chauffer the car, and when meeting people, make sure he introduces his wifes' lover......as his wifes' lover.

 

- With the availability of computer programs to do this, this one wouldn't be very hard.  But have hubby wear a T-shirt in public that says "Cuckold".

 

-   Most sex shops now have available molding kits, where you can make a mold of an erect cock, then you can make a dildo from the mold.  Have the hubby buy one kit for each lover (make sure he tells them why he's buying it), then have him make the impresson, and then have him make the molds and the dildos.  After this task is completed, have hubby build a display case, and nice pedistals for each dildo, with picture, and other fun information you'd like on them, and display them for the wifes' girlfriends or neighbors to see....and admire.

 

-  There are times when the wife just isn't going to feel like having sex.   The poor bull is gonna have blue balls if he doesn't do something quick.   The hubby can now have yet another duty to perform.  He becomes a piece of meat so the bull can keep his balls emptied out.  Here's a chance for hubby to learn the fine art of deep throat.  And if the bull chooses, he can mount hubby as well.

 

-  Some specialty shops sell women's panties with slogans or artwork on them.  Have hubby buy a pair of panties that says "I Love Cock", and have him wear them in front of your lover(s) and girlfriends.

 

- It's common knowledge that when a man is aroused, the woman can hold a lot of power over him and can get him to do a lot of things he normally wouldn't.

 

Soooo....with that in mind, let your cuck hubby jack off when he wants, but for doing so, he has to do his normal cuckolding duties, such as begging, and cleaning up when he's not in an aroused state.  He'll find it much harder to complete those duties this way.

 

 

 

- Make your cuckold husband get on his knees and beg your lover to fuck you. He must explain that he is not man enough to satisfy you himself and that he needs a real man to do his marital duties for him. He should then be required to kiss you lovers cock as a sign of submission and obediance.

 

- Make him strip you naked and serve drinks and snacks to you and your lover. Then make him lay on the floor and lick your feet while you and your lover make out on the sofa.

 

Next let him remove the shoes and socks of the lover and lick his feet while thanking him for pleasuring you. As you kneel on the sofa, and your lover takes you doggie style, he is made to kiss and lick the soles of his bare feet, and thank him for satisfying you.

 

To really finish off the job, make him lick the cum from your pussy, and then lick the cum and juice from lovers' cock.

 

 

 

- A nice Christmas card idea is to take a picture of lover and wife naked standing together kissing passionately but turned slightly into the camera with hubby on his knees with Bull Cock in his mouth and the wifes' hand resting on his head.

 

 

- Have the husband tag along on a dinner date where he picks up the tab and the wife makes sure that the waiter and everyone at the resteraunt knows that man who has his arm around her is NOT her husband.

 

 

- If you haven't as yet, you might want to begin a sissy training regimen on your little sissy husband.  Tell him things like "off with your pants, this time it's for good.  It's panties and dresses for you from now on." When you are with your lovers, you might want to get him a babysitter.  And of course, from now on, he pees sitting down.

 

 

- Being peed on and in the mouth by the wife is beautiful humiliation.

 

 

- High heel humiliation sessions.  First, the bull requires that she be in 5" heels....  A favorite technique for training is for bull to sperm her heels and then require that cuckold licks them clean.  That is something you should train your hubby in.

 

 

- Verbal cock humiliations:

 

                                   Is it in yet?

 

                                   Did you come already?

 

                                   Let me know when its hard.

 

                                   Is that as hard as it gets?

 

                                  Thats it?

 

                                  You have GOT to be kidding

 

 

- Licking the ass and the balls while he is inside her is both humbling and exciting

 

 

- Let your lover  cum into a shot glass and put wedding ring in the glass of cum on the nightstand for hubby to find. Let him take the ring using his mouth only.

 

 

- Leave used condoms full of your lovers' cum in places he is bound to find them, like on his pillow or the nightstand in the bedroom

 

 

-  Wear panties all day after you have been  filled with cum, and then leave the cum-filled panties in places where he will see them, like on the bedroom floor

 

 

- Give your cuckold husband a nice welcome-home kiss after having your lovers' cum in mouth for awhile. 

 

 

- Let your lover cum on cuckolds' pillow and make him sleep on it

 

 

 

Cuckold humiliation can focus on the inadequacy of a male's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Related femdom activities include ballbusting, cock and ball torture (CBT), verbal humiliation, forced chastity, orgasm denial or orgasm control, and forced homosexuality (in which a dominant female forces a heterosexual male to engage in homosexual acts for her amusement, or as part of feminization)

 

Many participants in this lifestyle conform to the Safe, sane and consensual and RACK models prevalent in the BDSM Community.

 

Light female domination scenarios may involve ageplay, erotic spanking, and body worship, especially foot worship and ass worship.

 

More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve facesitting or smothering, which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female performing anal sex on the sub using a strap-on dildo (see pegging). Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, caning, heavy torture, dripping hot wax on the genitals and heavy whipping. For these purposes, note the issue of legal consent which may or may not represent a defense to criminal liability for any injuries caused.

 

In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights from the slave (TPE), and acts may involve spitting domination or watersports (also known as golden showers).

 

 

 

 

Humiliatrix is a form of female dominant (see dominatrix) who humiliates the submissive partner. Humiliation play can include teasing, verbal degradation, orgasm denial, blackmail, monetary tributes, and public humiliation.

 

 

 

The concept of the 'humiliation' fantasy is often directly tied into a BDSM fantasy. Foot fetishism is often brought into a humiliation fantasy. Some men in sado-masochistic relationships enjoy being publicly humiliated by being forced to tie the woman's shoes in public, lick dirt off of the shoes, or even remove the shoes and lick, kiss or smell the feet or boots in public.

 

 

 

Humiliation BDSM is also conducted through forced oral sex, or face-sitting where the woman sits on the partner's face and forces him or her to perform cunnilingus or anilingus upon her. Cuckolding is also a common practice within humiliation BDSM. The woman may take on a lover and force the weaker 'submissive' husband to watch. While most cuckolding fantasies are mutually agreed upon, there are situations where spouses will use such tactics for revenge or simply to humiliate their spouse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cuckold humiliation and cuckold humiliation ideas:

 

 

Here are suggestions for some less intense ways of pushing a submissive man's buttons. Most of these undoubtedly are not original as there's really nothing new under the sun, and FemDom is no exception. Some of these may work for some folks and not for others. All personalities, likes and dislikes vary.

 

 

 

1.      Send him emails in which you mention his submissive behavior or address him as your sub, slave, knight, servant, boytoy or whatever. Or send text messages.

 

2.      Have him wear panties to work, preferably yours and preferably dirty. Not every day: it'll become too routine. Ask him what his coworkers would think if they knew he was wearing your panties.

 

3.      Give him an allowance and require he account for his expenditures.

 

4.      Tell him to buy a chastity device. No negotiation, no discussion.

 

5.      Lock him up periodically. Leave it on for a day or two or seven, or however long you wish, so he never knows how long he'll be locked up. Always be the one to lock and unlock the device. Make a point of inspecting it daily and teasing him about being at your mercy. Be sure to have him service you while wearing it.

 

6.      Have him keep a journal in which he records his thoughts and submissive feelings. Read it once a week while he kneels naked at your feet.

 

7.      Make a habit of sliding your hand (or foot) into his crotch and saying something like, "Getting to be a horny sub are we?" Or, "Since Mr. Willy belongs only to me, I can fondle him whenever I wish?but you may not." Or say nothing at all: just smile and give him a kiss on the cheek or a pat on the head.

 

8.      Have him kneel before you and kiss your feet.

 

9.      Have him give you foot massages and pedicures.

 

10.  Have him lick and suck your toes.

 

11.  Send a picture of your pussy to his cell phone with a message like, "This is the center of your world. Don't forget it."

 

12.  Insist he read some of your "women's magazines" and romance novels if you read them.

 

13.  Have him kneel naked before you and profess his devotion to you as his Goddess. "Hold Court" so to speak and do this several times a week.

 

14.  Have him wear a collar around the house.

 

15.  Attach a leash to this collar and lead him anywhere you wish.

 

16.  Have him perform household chores in the nude while you are clothed.

 

17.  Have him give you full body massages.

 

18.  Have him insert a butt plug just before company arrives or before you both go out for an evening. Smile at him whenever he sits down.

 

19.  Don't "ask" him to do something. Tell him. "Make me a cup of tea." "I want you to paint the den this weekend." "I expect you in the bedroom, naked and on your knees in 3 minutes."

 

20.  Ask for explanations. "Why haven't you made our bed yet?" "Why don't you have dinner ready?"

 

21.  Beckon him with your finger.

 

22.  Take every opportunity to flash him.

 

23.  Wear especially sexy or revealing outfits.

 

24.  Have him go shopping with you to carry your purse and packages.

 

25.  Always pay the check when you go out to eat.

 

26.  Insist he thank you for disciplining him.

 

27.  Queen him.

 

28.  Develop a tone of voice when requiring something of him or expressing your displeasure over something. It'll be your "domme voice."

 

 

 

 

 

THINGS THAT GOOD CUCKOLD HUSBAND SAYS WHEN WIFE IS GOING OUT:

 

 

 

1. Give me EXTRA chores right before You go out and tell me You're doing it "Just to be a bitch" ..Or even be a bitch about it and make me BEG You to give me extra chores

 

 

2. Have me shave Your pussy in case You "get lucky"

 

 

3. Make a whole production out of ME giving You the money to go out...

(Maybe even making me make a special trip to the ATM)..Then make fun of me for it

 

 

4. Have me bathe You and do Your nails

 

 

5. Have me kiss Your feet goodbye before You leave

 

 

6. As i bathe You or massage You, have ME dial Your Friend's number so You can talk with Her about the night out You're going to have. Maybe even have me kneel and use me as Your foot rest while You lounge on the sofa talking to Her

 

 

7. Make me wait up in some kind of pose for You when You come home...Maybe something silly like kneeling by the door with a rose in my mouth, or with Your robe and slippers waiting or something

 

 

8. Dress me up ridiculously while You are out and i am cleaning

 

 

9. Possibly even forbid me from sleeping in the bed with You that night

 

 

10. Have me spend time thinking about You, or staring at a picture of You, or writing a poem about Your feet or something

 

 

11. Call me from the bar to tell me what a GREAT time You're having...OR maybe even have me call YOU a few times til You decide to pick up..IF You decide to

 

 

12. Call me up from the bar and Have me drive You guys home if You're too drunk...And maybe even drive home a guy you met too

 

 

13. Have me help You dress sexy and/or semi-slutty

 

 

14.  Have ME iron Your outfit You plan to wear...Maybe even make me wear an apron while i do it

 

 

15. Run me RAGGED before You go...

 

 

16. Don't allow me to use ANY of the furniture all night

 

 

17. Have me sit staring aimlessly out the window towards the end of the night, eagerly awaiting Your arrival

 

 

18. Have me shave all of my pubic hairs (Just for kicks) or ALL the hair on my chest or ass or something

 

 

19. tell me specifically what i can eat either while You are home or after You leave and how i should eat it..

 

 

20. Tease me with Your body..Rub Your tits up against me or give me a sneak peek then giggle and tell Me how it's OFF limits to me tonight..It's for REAL Men ONLY...uummf

 

 

 

 

 

 

THINGS THAT CHEATING  WIFE SAYS to humiliate the cuckold:

 

 

 

1. Have fun tonight darling, hehe, I know "I" will

 

 

2. And this house had BETTER be spotless when I come home, chore-boy or it's your ass...Understood?

 

 

3. (RIGHT before leaving) Useless, come over here and tell Princess how much you love Her before She goes out looking for guys

hehe..

 

As You're walking out the door giggling obnoxiously say "you're pathetic"

 

 

4. And if you get done with your chores early (Which I doubt) I don't want your sorry ass laying around idly...You are to spend that time usefully thinking of ME *obnoxious smirk*

 

 

5. Wasn't that nice of Me to give you EXTRA chores tonight, darling?? Huumm??

 

 

 

6. I hope I meet a REAL Man tonight

 

 

7. Don't wait up dear *haughty snicker*

 

 

8. Oh your friend called to see if YOU wanted to go out with him tonight partying...*sighs obnoxiously* I told him you couldn't though, because you had too many chores to do while "I" am out hehe

 

 

9. Aaahhh nothing like a nice bath (or massage or whatever) from My little flunky before a fun night out with My girfriends

 

 

10. Look at you shaving My pussy for My big night out, dork-boy..*sighs obnoxiously* Just one big pussy shaving another *Giggles*

 

 

11. aawee...Is My little wimpy-hubby worried that Princess is gonna meet a stud tonight HA! You SHOULD be loser!

 

 

12. Do ya think all the guys will find Me sexy in this outfit, wimp??..ppff...What do I care what YOU think anyway?

 

 

 

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