Cuckoldry: The term has acquired additional meanings within certain sub-cultures, referring to couples wherein the female is dominant (Femdom) and she takes on additional partners, while the male takes on a submissive, cuckold role where he is monogamous to her, or only becoming involved sexually when it is felt to be emotionally supportive of her and her lover, or remaining altogether chaste. A man who fetishizes this situation is often referred to in the sub-culture as a cuckold.
Cuckoldry as a fetish has been around since at least the time of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (the writer after whom the term "masochism" is coined). Sacher-Masoch's wife, Aurora Rümelin, recounts in her memoirs multiple instances of Sacher-Masoch asking, begging and even threatening her to make her cuckold him so he could experience the pain and humiliation of the act. To that end, Sacher-Masoch created multiple opportunities for the adulterous act to occur, none of which were successful. While Rümelin indulged her husband in many of his masochistic requests, due in large part because to her dependence on him to financially support her and her children, she steadfastly refused to cuckold him. Rümelin's refusal to succumb to Sacher-Masoch's cuckoldry fantasies was one of the causes of their separation and her subsequent descent into poverty.
The Femdom Wife who enjoys cuckoldry is sometimes referred to as a hotwife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant (sometimes called a "stud" or "bull") is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos; the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of virility, perhaps sometimes having a small penis, impotence, infertility, vulnerability, weakness, or even anxiety and the stud or alpha male representing virility, potency, a larger phallus, fertility, dynamism, masculinity, strength and a sense of confidence in the ease with which he may sexually possess another man's wife.
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Cuckoldry among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are voluntarily cuckolded by their Femdom Wives (Cuckold in Femdom Marriage), sometimes as part of the cuckold husband's sexual fantasy and sometimes because they gain genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his Femdom Wife being better sexually fulfilled with a potentially superior male. In some cases the cuckold husband may instigate and nurture his wife's sexual infidelity, raising the question of who is truly the dominant partner. This is a common theme in letters to erotica magazines and online sites which focus on cuckoldry.
In most modern cases of fantasy cuckoldry, the cuckold husband usually finds pleasure through that of his Femdom Wife and they (the wife and extra-marital participant) may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckoldry as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment, usually while masturbating or involving himself in some sexual act with his wife during their activity.
Some less-common themes might include grooming his Femdom Wife for her "date", homemaking, or oral sex following the conclusion of sex with the other man. When this oral sex follows ejaculation, it is termed a creampie or cleaning up. This involves the cuckold husband eating or licking the semen of another man from inside his unfaithful Femdom Wife.
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