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COCK TEASING TRAINING

  

  

Training a Novice

 

It is important to note that the type of teasing and denial described on these pages exceeds the normal capability of the average male. Most men need to cum after arousal, emotionally that is, physically they do not have the control, untrained, to sustain more than twenty minutes of a complete erection at a very high level of arousal. To deny a man release after he has tasted the exponential rise of his excitement is simply unbearable and unthinkable to most men and women.

 

To enjoy the fruits of prolonged frustration, a male must first be eased into understanding that the temporary pleasures he may be offered are just that - temporary and secondly that he must completely remove his focus on release and realize that every moment of pleasure, pain , or frustration he experiences is strictly for the amusement of the administrator.

 

This requires that the male introduce a great degree of thought and concentration during his arousal. Men are goal oriented, and once aroused, their bodies naturally ascend toward the goal of orgasm. A man's mind must be trained to intervene in his body's instinct to resolve the pleasures he is granted with controlled thought to realign his body's goals to be merely an object of his controller - executing tasks of her will. His body and mind become a vessel delivering nothing more than the results of stimulation for observation.

 

He must see himself as a respondent of arousal not a pursuer. So to begin to give more concrete examples, if he were to stroke his penis to achieve a state of erection by command, he must realize the limit of the request. The request is not to satisfy his lust, or engage him in a act that normally leads to orgasmic pleasure, but simply to become erect so that his commander can see what effect that has on him. How hard his cock gets in what period of time, how his breathing changes, his heart rate, his moans of yearning...

 

A well trained male can stroke his cock, maintain an erection and await his next order without succumbing to an uncontrollable need to advance his state of arousal. This of course is not true of the novice. Which means that training a novice requires monitoring strategic steps before the whole puzzle is put together.

 

To begin a novice a commander might order him to get hard for her and then stop stroking. The novice would be left with a raised cock, void of further stimulation, and completely focused on his Dominant for the next instruction. This focus shift, from his need to the woman who is controlling what is next, begins to fertilize his mind with where his 'conscious' attention should remain.

 

This begins the process of creating a duality within him mainly:

  1. an awareness of his own arousal state and
  2. 2. a concurrent attentiveness to his instructor.

 

 

To further this duality, a Dominant can create certain fixations for him to focus on during his these arousal states. Embellishing fetishes, mindwashing with single unique objects, enriching lust focused on the Dom, are all methods of creating a synergetic duality in the novices mind.

 

The fixation can substitute for the physical presence of the Dominant when unavailable. After all, the sub's prolonged frustration should not take up too much of the Dominant's precious time. She should be able to walk in and out of his lust-nightmare as she pleases. A well structured stimulation schedule can keep a subject occupied, aroused, and frustrated while the Dominant goes about her business. If well maintained by the subject, his participation in the prescribed activities will prove amusing to the Dominant as she enters his space as evidenced by his arousal state.

 

Being left alone though is beyond a novice's abilities. He can not be trusted to maintain a high degree of concentration and adherence to what is prescribed to him by his own will. A novice must be monitored for short sessions with an enormous amount of generous attention by the Dominant. Which brings us back to his training.

 

As previously stated, Up and down exercises are the best to begin with. The Mistress might sit cross legged in front of him as he kneels before her, naked, stroking on command. The minute she sees that he is hard she asks him to stop and place his hands behind his back. The Mistress might get up and do some busy work, talk on the phone, or just remain there to stare at her subject while he slowly loses his precious erection. Upon flaccidity ample for the Dominant she instructs him to get hard for her again, only to repeat this loop many times until the submissive is in tears from his unfulfilled lust.

 

While the novice is stroking and regaining his erection for the 4th or 5th time, his mind should be very receptive for training the slowly shaping duality he must attend to during arousal. The Dominant may intrude into his libido using various methods - variety is always appropriate. She must become his Muse of Arousal. Speaking to him while he strokes marries her presence with his experience of this most intimate and personal stimulation. The more a Dominant speaks to him during this early training, the more the submissive will hear her voice in future arousal sessions - even when she is not present.

 

It might be helpful to have some degree of an outline of how the submissive will be invaded in this method. Tailored to the specific subject, its intensity might build along with the degree of his frustration. Whispering in the subjects ear and slowly building the voice in tone as he reaches his twentieth stroking. Or the the language and delivery might be inversely proportional to his experience: beginning with loud intimidating instructions progressing toward whispering when he is most aroused and frustrated after the 20th stroking. Random methods may used after some experience has been reached. It is important to build resonance of presence so that the subject recognizes the many faces of his new Muse of Arousal before being confronted with them randomly.

 

Understanding the male orgasmic cycle in detail is a great aid in planning the implantation of an Arousal Muse. In order to court the male's libido into accepting the Dominant's voice as its Muse, it helps if each and every word the Dominant speaks reveals a degree of authority combined with a complete understanding of what the subject is experiencing - an awareness superior to what the subject even knows of himself.

 

1. F - Foreplay - the initial stimulation's that awaken the libido, send blood to the penis, pre-erection. Visual, Sonic, and tactical touching.

2. E - Excitation - frictional stimulation's directly to the penis. Erection is achieved and controllable.

3. IC - Involuntary muscle contractions and automatic increase in excitation. Controllable only through training.

4. A - Approach - sudden and steep ascent to orgasm. Controllable by only extremely well trained males.

5. O - Orgasm - can be denied only through exceptional control over the A phase.

6. D - Descent - steep drop to relaxation.

7. R - Relaxation

 

Novices must be controlled to remain among the first two phases of excitation; F & E.

 

Through excessive training a male can be taught to explore all four of the pre-orgasm phases, prolonging frustration for many hours even days.

 

To imbue the male's psyche with her muse, a Mistress, upon learning the signs of her subject's phase shifts, can gear her language appropriate to each phase. There is nothing more exciting than hearing a woman speaking with great conviction about the exact pleasures one is experiencing.

 

 

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